As the year comes to an end, I’ve found myself reflective about 2013. Overall, it has been challenging, but with every year I learn that growth comes through challenges.
There were a few firsts….
This was the first full year since I was 14 years old that I did not have a “traditional” job working for someone else. It felt strange.
First time I’ve received letters/emails stating a company went another direction in their hiring process (because I was overqualified).
Went to my first readers conference, Authors After Dark 2013 in Savannah, and had a blast getting to know other readers…and picking the brains of some of my favorite writers.
Took my first temp job representing an electronics company in retail stores, teaching their employees about the company’s products, how to sell them, position them, and overcome customer objections.
Milestone Firsts… The GOOD STUFF!
But…even with those negatives…it was also the first time, despite all my stops and starts, that I published my first book…an erotic short! Those of you who’ve known and followed me for a while are not even a little surprised.
I got to meet one of my favorite blogging buddies, Renee A. Schuls-Jacobson, in person. The day we spent together was priceless to me….and quite hilarious. (She’s now going through some tough times, though, and could use lots of good thoughts and prayers.)
I survived my first ever 5K…and I hate to run! But, with the help of a few friends, we killed ColorVibe‘s run. Our team name? “Taste The Rainbow.” Hehehe!
I wrote my first ever sponsored blog post, and it was a blast!
I turned 40. Fortunately this one won’t be repeated… overall, preparing for the party turned out to be very stressful, but the love and friendship I was shown was worth the effort.
I got to meet some of my favorite authors…like Cherise Sinclair (who tolerated me when I accosted her at the end of the autograph signing event).
And the lovely and talented Joey W. Hill who was gracious enough to take a pic with me at the elemental ball….
Not to mention the awesome author who transplanted to my hometown (Chicago), Julie Ann Walker…who bought me a drink and spent time chatting it up and laughing with me.
Or partying with C. J. Ellisson….at the pre-vampire ball party in her hotel room, then at her table.
There were a few heartbreaks…
A dear friend of mine lost her battle to cancer. I tried to find a way to honor her memory…and share her love of life with you guys here.
My husband lost his job. That stung considering I had not found a day to day job outside of my writing. Fortunately he found a new one a couple weeks later.
Several more friends were diagnosed with various illnesses, mostly cancer.
I had to miss my half-sister’s wedding because of short notice and inability to afford plane tickets (they were nearly $1000).
While I was listing a general recap of last year’s highlights, I was surprised at just how many positive things had happened last year. Why? Because the bad ones felt so big!
Overall, life is filled with good and bad…which makes it a bit bittersweet. It’s so easy to lose perspective and let the negative overtake you if you allow it to have a foot hold in your mind.
So, as I enter into 2014, I’m determined to go forward with my best foot forward and my attitude in check…and to make sure that I remember to celebrate all the positive milestones I’ll be experiencing along the way.
What about you? When you look back on this last year, what are some of your most standout moments, both good and bad?
I think The Verve had it right with their gorgeous song from Cruel Intentions….