Yesterday I received the news that an old friend and mentor passed away. She was 66 years older. For a moment, sadness overwhelmed me. But only for a moment. It was hard to be completely sad when I knew just how passionately she lived her life.
Truth was, when I met her she’d just come back from being on leave. She’d battled cancer and was on her way back. Honestly, if it hadn’t been for the brightly colored scarf wrapped around her head, I would never have known. She was bright, vivid, and vivacious. She attacked life. She always had an ear for anyone who needed it. She played as hard as she worked, and she always made sure to recognize and acknowledge a job well done in an industry where criticism came more frequently than praise.
So how could I be sad? The party in heaven just got a little wilder. To honor her, I’m going to share a few songs that I feel exemplified the way she lived her life.
Bare Naked Ladies were one of her favorite bands. I remember carpooling together to Orlando and listening to their music the entire ride up, laughing and talking and generally enjoying each other’s company.
Remember the way I said she grabbed life? This song was more than a philosophy for her.
She marched to the beat of her own drummer and encouraged those around her to do the same…
And she was definitely always the life of the party (with a vial of Visine in her purse to cover up the red eye giveaway if we had to be up early the next morning).
Yeah, it goes without saying that I was honored to know her and I will cherish all the memories she left me with.
Aw Kitt– I’m sorry for your loss but what an awesome way to remember her. Sounds like quite the lady!
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She was. She may have only been 66 when she passed, but she sure knew how to live, you know?
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I’m so sorry 😦 66 is young. She left a legacy through you.
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And so many others she touched along the way. 🙂
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What a beautiful tribute to your friend, Kitt. I’m so sorry for your loss. You made me smile, however, when you wrote “the party in Heaven just got a little wilder.”
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Thanks, Mae. She was a pistol. She’d want us to celebrate her life and legacy, not mourn.
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I’m sorry about your friend, but it sounds like she packed a couple of lifetimes worth of living into the time she had here on earth. ❤
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She really did.
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To condense a life of 66 years or in fact to pay tribute to, is an impossible task. You have acknowledged, paid tribute and given the memory of her life to not only yourself but to others. May she R.I.P. Hugs xx
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Thanks, Jen.
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Welcome sweety x
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Wow, this is the 4th passing I just heard of, Dr. Emoto, Dolores Cannon, and another but they are all very special and seemed to have left together. ❤ Blessings of love~
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It’s nice to know she won’t be partying alone. Thanks!
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Cheers to your fabulous friend! What a lovely tribute. I hope when it’s time for my card to be punched, I’m remembered the way that your friend is. My thoughts are with you Kitt. XOXO
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Thanks, darlin’!
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Your tribute makes me wish I’d known her, and I’ll be keeping you and her family in mind.
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Thank you. She sure was a pistol. 🙂
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Such a young age for a vibrant spirit to pass. Sounds like she was a cool person to befriend. Nice tribute.
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Thanks, Phil. She was awesome.
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It is always healthier in so many ways when the living celebrate the lives of the dead. 🙂 Nice post and cool blog! ❤
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Thanks! I couldn’t agree more.
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